male chastity contract

put his promises to please you on paper

Male chastity needn't be complicated - you can just lock up his cock and tell him that he needs to please if he wants you to use the keys! Sometimes, however, it's useful to formalise his frustration, spelling out exactly what your man will be committing himself to when he surrenders his sex to you. Signing a chastity contract is a great way for him to show that he's serious about selfless submission, putting his promises on paper in a way that can't be denied later.

Our male chastity contract provides ready-made text that you can customise to your requirements, putting the focus on practical considerations rather than pandering to fantasies, yet capable of adding plenty of spice to a female-led relationship. With a choice of realistic, no-nonsense options, this easy-to-use online tool lets you quickly create a contract to suit your situation, whether you merely want your man to stop masturbating and pay more attention or expect him to wear panties to show that he knows just who's in charge!

The contract is deliberately rather one-sided, giving the keyholder rights rather than burdening her with responsibilities - after all, when a man wears a chastity device for a woman, it's her desires that should come first! If you're still unsure whether male chastity is right for your relationship, you'll find it offers plenty of possibilities without excessive obligations. allowing you to direct a man's enthusiasm for denial to your advantage. Conversely, if he baulks at such terms, he may be more interested in his own pleasure than yours, setting the stage for a discussion about what a wearing a chastity device is supposed to achieve.

how to create a contract

Start by considering how you want your man to show his submission, and choose one of the two options below. If you won't be requiring him to wear more than just a chastity device to control his desires, select the no nonsense male chastity contract, which allows you to take charge of how and when he's permitted sexual pleasure. If you'd like to combine his chastity with lingerie discipline, opt for the sissy chastity contract, which gives you the right to make him wear women's underwear as well. Your choice will change the contract accordingly, removing clauses that are irrelevant to your circumstances and rewriting others to be more appropriate.

Next, choose how each party will be referred to. Do you see yourself as simply "the Keyholder" and "the Wearer", or would you rather be "the Wife" and "the Husband"? If you'd prefer your chastity contract to be more personal, why not have your man sign something written in the first person, or else reduce him to being "you" while you take centre stage throughout? Will he be wearing a "chastity device" or a "chastity belt"? You don't have to limit yourself to the presented options, but can experiment with whatever takes your fancy, with the text updating as soon as you make a change. You could have your man agree to wearing a "male protector" for "my queen" in addition to being a first person "I" himself, have the contract refer to you as "you" and "your devoted servant", or even use pet names should that please you more.

You can choose between various options for certain sections using the buttons that appear in them - for instance, to add a trial period or to make the contract more one-sided by having only your man sign it. As well as editing any part of the text, you can also make complete sections of the contract disappear simply by clicking on their headings. When you're happy with the contract, use the "printable version" button at the bottom of the page to leave only the text that you want. You can then print this out for your man to sign, or copy and paste it into a word processor as you prefer.

disclaimer

No lawyers were harmed in the writing of this contract, nor were any involved in any way. Nothing here should be construed as legal advice or the provision of legal services. We can accept no responsibility for how anyone may choose to use any contract, or for anything else they may do.

configure the contract

First, select the type of contract required:

chastity contract

sissy chastity contract

It is hereby agreed that I, Name of Husbandyou, Name of HusbandName of Husband, henceforth referred to as the Husband, will abstain from all forms of sexual activity, except where permitted by me, Name of Wifeyou, Name of WifeName of Wife, henceforth referred to as the Wife, in accordance with the following terms:

permitted and prohibited activities

The Husband will not engage in any activity intended to elicit sexual excitement or arousal, nor do anything that could reasonably be expected to result in the Husband's ejaculation, including, but not limited to, masturbation and sexual intercourse, without my permissionyour permissionthe Wife's permission. Except where permitted or instructed by the Wife, the Husband will not watch, read or listen to any material that may reasonably be considered to be pornographic or erotic in nature, nor ogle or otherwise look inappropriately at any third party. In addition, the Husband will not ask to be allowed to engage in any such activity, either directly or indirectly, except where permitted or instructed by the Wife.

Notwithstanding the foregoing, unless otherwise prohibited by the Wife, the Husband may, at any time, offer to engage in any sexual activity which could not reasonably be expected to result in the Husband's ejaculation, provided that the primary aim of such activity is the Wife's pleasure. This includes, but is not limited to, erotic massage and cunnilingus. I amYou areThe Wife is under no obligation to accept any such offer, nor to permit the Husband any reciprocal activity or to provide any other reward for engaging in, or offering to engage in, any such activity.

The Wife may, at any time, temporarily permit the Husband to engage in any activity that would otherwise be prohibited by this agreement, but amareis under no obligation to do so, regardless of how long it may have been since the Husband previously engaged in that or any other activity. Where I permityou permitthe Wife permits any activity, the Wife may impose limits, restrictions or conditions, including, but not limited to, requiring the Husband to cease the permitted activity prior to the Husband's ejaculation, and preventing the Husband from enjoying any pleasure from the activity, including, but not limited to, that from ejaculation. The Wife may also invite the Husband to engage in sexual activity which could not reasonably be expected to result in the Husband's ejaculation, but where the primary aim is the Wife's pleasure. The Husband may decline to engage in any activity that may be permitted or invited by the Wife, but I amyou arethe Wife is under no obligation to offer any alternative activity in such circumstances.

duration of agreement

termination

The Wife may terminate this agreement at any time, for any reason, with immediate effect or at a specified future time and date, by providing notice to the Husband by any reasonable means. I amYou areThe Wife is not obliged to provide the Husband with any explanation for terminating this agreement.

The Husband may terminate this agreement by providing one month's notice to the Wife in person. The Wife may require the Husband to provide a reasonable explanation for terminating this agreement. The Wife may extend the notice period by the duration of any outstanding penalty or previously notified period of denial at the time that I provideyou providethe Husband provides notice, plus any further penalties that the Husband may incur while serving the notice period. At my sole discretionyour sole discretionthe Wife's sole discretion, the Wife may shorten or waive the notice period. While I amyou arethe Husband is serving the notice period, the Husband will continue to abide by the terms of this agreement. The Husband may cancel any notice to terminate this agreement at any time, for any reason, but I agreeyou agreeagrees that I amyou arethe Wife is under no obligation to accept such cancellation.

chastity devices

The Wife may provide, or may require the Husband to provide, one or more effective means of preventing access to the Husband's genitals, henceforth referred to as chastity devices. For a chastity device to be considered to be effective, it must be capable of being secured in a manner that renders it impossible to remove or circumvent its function without the use of a separate instrument, henceforth referred to as a key, or by irreversibly damaging all or part of the chastity device. A replaceable or resettable component of a chastity device which is designed to be tamper-evident will henceforth be referred to as a seal.

Subject to the terms of this agreement, the Husband will wear a chastity device as instructed by the Wife. This may require the Husband to wear the chastity device at any time, day or night, or for extended periods, regardless of the presence or absence of the Wife or any third party. The Husband will not use any key for the chastity device, nor break any seal, nor make any attempt to remove or circumvent the function of the chastity device, without my permissionyour permissionthe Wife's permission. I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees that not being instructed to wear a chastity device does not constitute permission to engage in any prohibited activity, but that the purpose of the chastity device is to help demonstrate that I haveyou havethe Husband has not engaged in any such activity. Furthermore, I agreeyou agreethe Husband agrees that the chastity device may prevent, impede or deter sexual arousal.

I amYou areThe Wife is no obligation to fit or remove any chastity device in person, but may require the Husband to do so, either under supervision, or in private. The Wife may change or make modifications to the chastity device at any time, or may require the Husband to make such changes or modifications. This may be for any reason, including, but not limited to, making the chastity device more effective or secure, making the chastity device more or less comfortable, convenient or discreet, and discouraging arousal. The Wife may require the Husband to submit to additional restrictions prior to removing or changing a chastity device, including, but not limited to, restraining other parts of the Husband's body. I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees that such restrictions may remain in place until a chastity device has been fitted again.

Upon termination of this agreement, the Wife will remove, or provide the Husband with the means to remove, any chastity device or other restrictions.

training

The Husband may be required to undertake training in order to wear a chastity device or lingerie in the manner preferred by the Wife. This training may require the Husband to wear a chastity device or lingerie for progressively increasing periods of time in order to accustom the Husband to the chastity device or lingerie. I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees that this training may be physically or psychologically challenging. The Husband will commit as much time and effort as may be necessary for such training to be effective. I amYou areThe Wife is under no obligation to direct or supervise any training, but may require the Husband to undertake such training in private.

inspection

I amYou areThe Wife is under no obligation to inspect any chastity device or lingerie, but may do so at any time, either on a regular or an impromptu basis. Where I amyou arethe Husband is not with the Wife, the Wife may require the Husband to provide photographic proof that the chastity device or lingerie is being worn, including, but not limited to, live or recorded video. The Husband will provide such proof at the earliest opportunity, and will comply with any additional requirements the Wife may set, including, but not limited to, demonstrating the integrity of any locks or seals, and confirming that photographic proof is contemporaneous. The Husband will answer all questions that the Wife may ask truthfully and without omission.

safety

I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees that wearing a chastity device or lingerie may be uncomfortable at times, including, but not limited to, when sexually aroused. Notwithstanding the foregoing, the Wife will not ask the Husband to wear any chastity device or lingerie in any manner that would cause injury or otherwise endanger the Husband's health. Where I reasonably believeyou reasonably believethe Husband reasonably believes that continuing to wear a chastity device or lingerie would cause injury or otherwise endanger the Husband's health, the Husband will remove the chastity device or lingerie immediately, and will notify the Wife at the earliest opportunity. In such circumstances, the Husband may use any means to remove the chastity device or lingerie, including, but not limited to, breaking any seal, but will endeavour to minimise damage to the chastity device or lingerie where possible.

Where I wearyou wearthe Husband wears a chastity device that requires a key to remove, the Wife will, when not personally present, allow the Husband to have access to a key for the chastity device. The Husband will not use this key or allow this key to be used without my permissionyour permissionthe Wife's permission, except where I reasonably believeyou reasonably believethe Husband reasonably believes that continuing to wear the chastity device would cause injury or otherwise endanger the Husband's health. The Wife may secure this key with a tamper-evident mechanism to allow the Husband to prove that it has not been used, but will ensure that any such mechanism does not prevent use of the key in an emergency. The Wife may inspect the key and any associated mechanism at any time, either on a regular or an impromptu basis, and where not with the Husband, may require the Husband to provide photographic proof that the key has not been used.

hygiene

Notwithstanding any chastity device or lingerie, the Husband will maintain good personal hygiene at all times. Where I wearyou wearthe Husband wears a chastity device, the Husband will be responsible for its cleaning and any other maintenance that may be required, except where otherwise instructed by the Wife. I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees that wearing a chastity device may affect how I bathe or useyou bathe or usethe Husband bathes or uses the toilet, including, but not limited to, affecting the duration or frequency of so doing, requiring the Husband to use additional paraphernalia to maintain good personal hygiene or to keep the chastity device clean, and requiring the Husband to obtain my permissionyour permissionthe Wife's permission prior to bathing or using the toilet.

The Husband will notify the Wife of any concerns or problems regarding maintaining good personal hygiene or keeping any chastity device clean at the earliest opportunity. The Wife will allow any chastity device to be removed as often as is required for the Husband to maintain good personal hygiene and to keep the chastity device clean. The Wife may supervise the Husband's bathing or use of the toilet on such occasions. Where I doyou dothe Wife does not personally inspect the Husband's genitals on such occasions, the Husband will carefully check for any redness, chafing, swelling, tenderness or other symptoms that may result from wearing a chastity device, and will report any concerns to the Wife at the earliest opportunity. The Husband will endeavour to minimise arousal on such occasions, and will not touch the Husband's genitals any more than is necessary for cleaning and inspection.

Where I wearyou wearthe Husband wears lingerie, the Husband will ensure that the lingerie remains clean, which may require the Husband to wash the lingerie in an appropriate manner. I amYou areThe Wife is under no obligation to direct or supervise any washing of lingerie, but may require the Husband to undertake said washing in private. Where any lingerie becomes damaged, the Husband will notify the Wife at the earliest opportunity. The Husband may be required to replace said lingerie in such circumstances, regardless of whether the damage results from the Husband's actions or inaction, or could be considered reasonable wear and tear. The Wife may also instruct the Husband to purchase replacement or additional lingerie at any time, for any reason. I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees to purchase any lingerie required in a timely manner, without complaint or argument.

involuntary ejaculation

The Husband will notify the Wife of any involuntary or unintentional ejaculation, including, but not limited to, any nocturnal emission, at the earliest opportunity. The Wife will not consider any involuntary or unintentional ejaculation to be a breach of this agreement, but may require the Husband to explain the circumstances that caused the ejaculation. I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees that an involuntary or unintentional ejaculation constitutes an ejaculation, and may, at my sole discretionyour sole discretionthe Wife's sole discretion, result in the Wife imposing a period of denial or extending a previously notified period.

behaviour

Except where I haveyou havethe Husband has reasonable concerns about health or hygiene, or where otherwise permitted or instructed by the Wife, the Husband will not refer to any chastity device or lingerie, either directly or indirectly, while it is being worn, nor fuss with, or otherwise draw attention to said chastity device or lingerie. This includes, but is not limited to, asking the Wife to remove the chastity device or lingerie, and asking the Wife to make the chastity device or lingerie more comfortable, convenient or discreet.

I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees to wear a chastity device as instructed by the Wife, including, but not limited to, fitting the chastity device or allowing the chastity device to be fitted, without complaint or argument. Where instructed to fit a chastity device in person, the Husband will do so in a timely manner, returning any keys that may be required to fit the chastity device at the earliest opportunity. I also agreeYou also agreeThe Husband also agrees to accept any notified period of denial or penalty that the Wife may impose without complaint or argument. I furthermore agreeYou furthermore agreeThe Husband furthermore agrees that sexual frustration is a likely and natural consequence of wearing a chastity device, and that such frustration alone does not constitute sufficient grounds for the chastity device to be removed.

I agreeYou agreeThe Husband agrees to wear lingerie as instructed by the Wife, which may require the Husband to choose lingerie to wear. Where I amyou arethe Husband is required to choose lingerie, the Husband will endeavour to satisfy both the Wife's preferences and any requirements of the situation, including, but not limited to, pleasing the Wife and ensuring that the lingerie remains concealed from third parties. The Husband may be required to put on lingerie at scheduled times, in private, and without supervision or further instruction. Where I amyou arethe Husband is required to put on lingerie, the Husband will do so in a timely manner, without complaint or argument.

confidentiality

Except where permitted or instructed by the Wife, the Husband will not disclose to any third party any details of this agreement, nor directly or indirectly make any mention of any chastity device, lingerie or key in any manner where its purpose or function could reasonably be deduced by any third party. Except where otherwise permitted or required by this agreement, the Husband will not take any photograph, nor make any video recording, of any chastity device or lingerie, either while it is being worn or otherwise, nor of any key, without my permissionyour permissionthe Wife permission. These provisions will continue to be effective after the termination of this agreement.

Except where permitted by the Husband, the Wife will not disclose to any third party any details of this agreement, nor directly or indirectly make any mention of any chastity device, lingerie or key in any manner where its purpose or function could reasonably be deduced by any third party. The Wife will not take any photograph, nor make any video recording of any chastity device or lingerie while it is being worn by the Husband, without my permissionyour permissionthe Husband's permission. These provisions will continue to be effective after the termination of this agreement.

Unless permitted or instructed to the contrary by the Wife, the Husband will ensure that no third party sees the Husband wearing a chastity device or lingerie, nor anything that would allow the presence of a chastity device or lingerie to be reasonably deduced. The Husband may be required to wear different or additional clothing to conceal a chastity device or lingerie from third parties, which may be less comfortable or convenient.

entire agreement

This agreement constitutes our entire understandingthe entire understanding of the partiesour entire understandingthe entire understanding of the partiesthe entire understanding of the parties with respect to the subject matter contained herein, and supersedes any prior agreement, whether written or oral, between usthe partiesusthe partiesthe parties.

severability

If any provision of this agreement is found to be invalid or unenforceable for any reason, the remaining provisions will continue to be valid and enforceable. Any failure to enforce any provision of this agreement shall not be construed as a waiver of any right to subsequently enforce that provision, nor any other provision of this agreement, at any time.

modification

This agreement may not be modified or amended by either of uspartyof uspartyparty, unless agreed in writing by both of uspartiesof uspartiesparties.

declaration

When you are satisfied with the contract: